House hunting

We began our search about three weeks maybe a month ago and it's going not as well as I thought it would. Come to find out searching for houses isn't actually as fun as it seems to be. I had this thought about finding this great home and getting great rates and all that kind of fun stuff and that is not the case. There is so much that goes into buying home. I've seen probably 30 to 40 homes with offers in on five homes and still we are not a homebuyer! I'm getting really frustrated and I don't want to be because I want buying a home to be a fun experience! It's amazing how quickly the economy has changed. The homes are going so fast, they will be on the market for two or three days and already have three or four offers and usually we are out bid. I'm wanting to find a home that will fit Stephen and I, I also want to do what Heavenly Father wants us to do. I'm feeling a little bit like I don't know what heavenly father wants us to do. Putting that out there so hopefully we will get some kind of direction, guidance, answer, anything, please! I have faith that it will all work out. I need to stop stressing and just continue to move forward with what we're doing. And hope for the best!